Sorry I've been so absent of late. I check in daily, just had nothing worthwhile to post. As for the bear, my wife's attorney notified my attorney ask'n when she expected this bear to be done (in other words, she's look'n to attach half in the settlement). When that awareness occurred I had no choice but to notify the investor and he immediately said, ... "I'm OUT!!" So, the bear's progress stopped in its tracks. Haven't done shit with it for over a month. I have since notified my wife that her greed just fucked us both, particularly (moreso) ME as now I have no means of income other than my SS and VA disability checks which added up barely breaks 1,400/mo. The mortgage is 1273/mo... so you can imagine there's not much left for me to eat and pay utilities with. At this point I'm pushing back through my attorney. Last word I got from my wife was that she did not want this to go to court... that she decided she didn't want anything but what remaining personal effects she still had here at the house. She said the revised paperwork to that effect would be sent to me soon. That was over a week ago. I'll believe it when I see it. I ain't hold'n my breath.
Also note, the investor called me last Friday to tell me he only backed out to do me a favor. He said he spoke with my wife's attorney and told her there was no contract... that he was merely donating money to a budding artist to help him finish a project that's been in the works since 1997. At this stage, he said, the money he put toward materials was a "loan" to enable me to finish the work and help me get established as an artist in retirement. So, that debt is both my wife's and I's to bear. Now, it's making sense why the wife suddenly changed her demands. He also said that once the divorce is final he'd be "back onboard" with the verbal agreement we had before and he'll contribute the next installment for materials then. So... here I sit... bored shitless... barely scrape'n by, while my wife enjoys life with her new boyfriend who's pay'n all her overhead including her attorney fees. That shit's about to change dramatically for her, though... I've instructed my attorney to give her two options: A.. honor what she last wrote stating she wanted nothing but my signature on the divorce to set her free and whatever personal effects she still has here in the house... or B.. I'll be hit'n her for financial maintenance till the day I drop dead (which her boyfriend will have to pay since she's not working). Let's see how much he appreciates having to pay to get laid each month. Plus, i'll hit her for half the mortgages I've paid since the day she left, plus the repairs necessary for the home's septic failure last month I had to deal with out of savings. I'm also going to add to that the cost of health insurance I can't afford because I've always been on her insurance she's had benefit from while working in the medical industry for many decades. Oh, and half the bluebook value on our only truck she left with claiming it's HER'S as she paid the last 2K out of her savings to pay it off (regardless the fact my income carried the burden of it over the years since 2004)
I do get in an occasional ride now and then on the Harley. Have to ration food for a week or so to afford the gas and a few glasses of beer on such opportunities. To keep from goin nuts I volunteer to help seniors in town clean up around their properties, and been power washing decades of moss off the masonic lodge (100 yr old 2 story brick structure) and repainting window frames around the exterior. I don't get paid nuth'n... 'cept good company and something to eat on lunch break. Keeps me from goin stir crazy around the house.
Hopefully this nightmare will be over with soon... fingers crossed.
